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This is my last column as your President. How fast
three years have gone by. In the beginning, I had no idea what I was
doing nor had I any idea of what was to lie ahead. What I knew is
that I had skills that I thought could use to make a difference. It
wasn’t until the Dines family donated their family Torah that I
understood. I stood on the bima that evening with Marlene and her
mother as they passed the Torah to Josh Cohen, the President at the
time and he passed it onto me. L’Dor V’dor: from generation to
generation. There was a connection made for me in that very instant
that was so incredibly powerful it is hard to explain. The meaning
of L’Dor V’dor hit me like a ton of bricks. The responsibility I
had taken on as President of the Board was overwhelming. All these
new questions ran through my mind. What made me think I can do this
job? What ever made me think I had any qualification to take on the
most sacred of tasks when I was struggling to find my own way? How
can I lead the Board that needs a leader so badly? Standing there,
holding that Torah, I had so many answers and so many more
questions. I just felt the urge to sob.
In all that I have said and done over the course of
the past three years, I have always tried to do what was right for
the Temple mission and the members. I am happy about all the
progress we have made during my tenure, especially the
implementation of many of the suggestions from Hazon. There is still
much to do. I have come to know many of you and love our Temple
community. We are small and we are unique. We are a wonderful
representation of what can happen when people really care about each
other.
Observations and thoughts I would like us all to
ponder:
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When faced with adversity, we roll up our
sleeves |
and work together to create solutions.
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When new people bring in new ideas, be open,
listen |
and be willing to change. Doing things the way we
have always done them breeds complacency and
stagnation.
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Jewishness = Joyfulness – In my mind they are |
synonyms. Let’s teach our children through the
joyful
expression of Judaism. Then they will feel the joy
of
being Jewish and not just be educated to know what
it
means to be Jewish.
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Be willing to take risks. |
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Besides our staff and clergy, work only gets
done |
through volunteers. If you see something that needs
to
be fixed, don’t complain. Volunteer to help fix
it.
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Remember, people who volunteer (including the |
board and the WTI) do so out of their love and
commitment to our Temple.
However, all of these volunteers
have personal lives, so have patience.
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Before jumping to criticize, put yourself in the |
other person’s shoes.
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Reach out, get to know each other. Make everyone |
feel welcome.
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Our diversity makes us strong. |
Everyone adds value to our Temple.
It has been a privilege and an honor to be your
President these past three years. I will continue my work at Temple
Israel by doing what I really love, which is education. I will work
with Mindy to bring great adult and family educational offerings to
the Temple.
Thank you
B’Shalom,
Reva
Kopel
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